1960's women stuck at home

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Tara Conklin

Historiography

April 13, 2007

        In the 1960’s feminist history began to rise.  Barbara Welter pioneered the study of nineteenth century women, their roles in society, and the moral compass that drove them.  Since the publication of her article The Cult of True Womanhood, many have agreed with her sentiments.  In the past twenty-five years the application of Welter‘s claims have been hotly debated.

        Barbara Welter pioneered the study of the “Cult of Domesticity.”  Welter claimed that women of the nineteenth century were “held hostage in the home.”  In an environment where things constantly were changing, such as control of fortunes, materialistic gains and the chance for social mobility, according to Welter one thing remained the same, a “true woman.”   Welter described the “true woman,” as holding steadfast to four qualities, piety, purity, submissiveness and domesticity.  Anyone testing the intrinsic worth of the four qualities was seen as an enemy to civilization, and of God. Women saw it as “a fearful obligation, a solemn responsibility, which the nineteenth century woman had to “uphold the pillars of the temple with her frail white hand.”  By using the four virtues to build her own sense of woman, and judge her peers the average woman was promised contentment and power.  Without them, no matter what else she had accomplished, she was nothing.

        Piety or strong respectful belief in a deity or deities, and strict observance of religious principles in everyday life, made up the core of the virtues.  A young man looking for a woman to spend his life with, was encouraged to search for someone who held this faithfulness because if they had it all other merits would follow.  Welter reported that the masses of the population felt the world would be salvaged for God by way of woman’s suffering.  Welter collected evidence supporting why women were religious and why they needed to be.  Sources for this include a speech to a graduating class of medical students, an article in the Ladies Repository, and the book Woman In Her Social and Domestic Character.  Different from involvement in other organizations or clubs, religious practice to not take a woman away from her “proper sphere,” her home. 

        The absence of purity was considered unnatural and unfeminine.  According to Welter, a woman who lacked purity, pertaining to whether or not she had chosen to save herself for marriage, was “no woman at all , but a member of some lower order,” who was undeserving of the company of others.   Quoting from women’s magazines Welter discovered that the loss of one’s purity was thought to bring about madness and even death.  Purity was to be the single greatest gift a woman bestowed upon her husband on their wedding night, from that moment on she became completely dependant upon him.  Welter displayed the level of dependency by quoting from Mary R. Beard’s book, Women as a Force in History, “women became an empty vessel, without a legal or emotional existence of her own.” 

        In her article Welter presented many examples of advice given to young girls in order to avoid the challenge men put upon a woman’s purity.  One example can be found in Eliza Farrar’s The Young Lady’s Friend,  advised women not to sit too close, read out of the same book or place one’s head to close to a member of the opposite sex.”   Welter also showed evidence on what would happen to a girl who was considered “loose.”  In a collection of  stories about  her childhood schoolmates, A.J. Graves told the story of Amelia Dorrington, who died in an almshouse after living a life of “depravity and intemperance,” as the result of her mother allowing her to live a “high spirited and imprudent life.”  Her spirited lifestyle was misinterpreted by a man, and had “disastrous results, followed by a total loss of virtuous principle.” Welter argued, if a woman resisted the assaults men placed upon her virtue, she proved her superiority and power of men. 

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        Welter placed emphasis upon  the submissiveness of women, “Submissiveness was perhaps the most feminine virtue expected of women.  All of virtues thus far have been given the same emphasis, so which is truly the most important?  Men were considered to be the movers, the doers, and the actors while women were seen as the passive submissive responders.  Using material from the mid nineteenth century, Welter concluded that “a woman understood her position, if she was the right kind of woman, a true woman.”  George Burnap lectured in his  Sphere and Duties of the Woman, that “a woman asks for wisdom, consistency, ...

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