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“I waste office supplies because I hate my boss”

“I wear a mohawk and I love the way children look at me”

“Sometimes I put coins in other peoples’ parking meters”

“I know the truth to the lie my parents tell…”

“I was not raped”

Kathryn Shaw investigates the internet phenomenon of PostSecret.

I was sitting in a vegan café with my friend Angie a little over a year ago the first time I heard about PostSecret. I don’t know why; I’m not a vegan, or a vegetarian, or anything. I think I was trying to be supportive. Angie casually passed the book across the table, a little smile on his face that I knew meant he was quite pleased with himself: “PostSecret: Extraordinary Confessions from Ordinary Lives” by Frank Warren, a compilation of postcards bearing the secrets of ordinary people - some dark, some humorous, some heartwarming, spanning everything from declarations of love to bad habits and all the way to confessions of criminal activity.

PostSecret, Angie told me, is a website set up in January 2005 by Frank Warren in response to a group art project in which he had given blank postcards to 3,000 strangers and invited them to write their secret on the front. The website is similar: people are invited to send in their secrets anonymously on a decorated homemade postcard, with between twenty and forty new secrets being posted every Sunday. The only rules are that the secret must be truthful and must never have been spoken before. Three books have also been published, containing postcards from the website as well as many which have not been available online. To date the website has received over 62 million hits.

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I spent an hour engrossed in that book, the forgotten green tea getting gradually colder; Angie was very proud of himself. I laughed. I almost cried. I thought a lot, about a lot of things. I identified with some of those secrets, others I found utterly reprehensible. I was even slightly jealous of some of those people, a little in love with others. The thing that impacted me the most about the PostSecret book was the realness of it all: every single one of those secrets belonged to an actual person, every single one of those postcards bore a ...

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