When there is a divorce the children’s safety blank is shattered. They feel that there is no body to trust and that they are alone is this situation. When you go to any city there are divorces there. There is at least one divorce on every city block. At is a lot to the way that it was in our parent’s day.
“The teens are going out of control.” Everybody says but if you look at the way they are acting they are acting out the way they feel. When the teens are out of there “rebellion years” they feel that there will be nobody to love them. They will try to look for love in the wrong places. That is why there are a lot of teen babies and things like that. The media says that people will live with five others until they get married to the “right one”.
Everyday there are million of children putting on a faces so there friends won’t see the hurt and people won’t ask them what is happening, so it looks like nothing is wrong. But after school or whatever they are doing is done they don’t want to go home.
There is a song out, I don’t know the name, it talks about how this guy when he was young his parents would get into fights, he would put on a face so his friends wouldn’t know, and go up in his room and dream of another life that he didn’t have, and ask “how you can tell with all those tears in your eyes that everything is wonderful now”. That song tells us a lot of what children do and how they truly feel inside. If you dig more into the song you will see that it tarred him apart. The children just want someone to love them and when they see there parents fight they feel like it is all there fault.
The only way to fix this problem is to have people get married before having children and be sure that they love each other. Because they may thing that they may love each other then but after they have to live with each other they may think other wise.
