Discuss research (theories and/ or studies) relating to the formation of relationships.
Discuss research (theories and/ or studies) relating to the formation of relationships.
Physical attractiveness is an important area when considering the formation of relationships. It is the first thing we notice when we meet someone and it is this, which determines whether we decide to get to know him or her further. If we find a person physically attractive it is likely that we will find other things about them attractive also, this is described by brigham as the halo effect. Feigngold considered physical attractiveness and believed it to be more important to men than to women, having analysed results from questionnaires in other studies. However in reality it may have been that women rate physical attractiveness equally as important but were less willing to admit it. Walster et al wanted to prove the importance of physical attractiveness in the formation of relationships, using the ‘blind date study’. He found that partners liked the more physically attractive students more than the less attractive students, therefore this would suggest that physical attractiveness is very important in the formation of relationships. However attractiveness is subjective and what is deemed attractive varies between people, and only students were used therefore we cannot generalise it to other settings. In addition the students based their judgements on fellow students without having got to know them and therefore judgements were based on superficial characteristics. However it is plausible as this does support the belief that the level of attractiveness has an important impact on the initial impression and therefore whether a person decides to develop a relationship. In his follow up study Walster found that students were more likely to continue their relationship if they were similar in physical attractiveness. This suggests that in order for a relationship to develop we feel the person needs to be of a similar level as it makes us feel more comfortable. Thus we may, on our first impression, prefer the more attractive people but desire a longer lasting relationship with those more like ourselves. An explanation for this may be our desire for reinforcement of our own confidence and in order to feel that the relationship is balanced and therefore we do not feel indebted or outdone by the person with whom we are in a relationship with. Murstein supported this theory and named it the matching hypothesis. He found that when rating the attractiveness of couples there was a tendency that participants would rate them similarly. It is important to consider the role of physical attractiveness; it is this which determines our initial impression of someone and on which we ground our whether we desire to develop a relationship with them or not, therefore it has an important role to play. However some people are more influenced by this than others which suggests that individual differences are an important factor to be considered and thus attractiveness can not be the only consideration in the formation of relationships.