Why do you think Fr. Lawton says the "journey to be oneself" seems the riskiest of all journeys? What risks lie ahead as you embark on your college career, and the "adventure" of discovering and becoming yourself?

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At a recent Commencement Mass, LMU's past President, Fr. Robert Lawton, S.J. said, ''So what is the answer to this deep insecurity we all feel? The answer, I think, is to embrace the adventure of becoming deeply, and fully, ourselves. This is what God is really calling us to. It seems like the riskiest of all journeys, this journey to be oneself. But it’s ultimately the journey that leads us to happiness, that leads us into God’s dreams for us.''

QUESTION 1: Why do you think Fr. Lawton says the "journey to be oneself" seems the riskiest of all journeys? What risks lie ahead as you embark on your college career, and the "adventure" of discovering and becoming yourself?

The “journey to be oneself” can be defined as a phase of life where we the young adults of today’s world break free from the protective cocoon of our parents and commence on the path of finding ourselves. This path of discovering oneself is always travelled alone and so it is the riskiest one. The man is a social animal and he is knitted to the society through the relationships he has with the other fellow members of the community. Although, these people help and support him through out his journey, it is indispensable for him to acknowledge the fact that their relation with him is not invariable on all grounds and all times. “The most powerful relation you will ever have is the relationship with your self”, “To the question of your life you are the answer, and to the problems of the life you the solution” These statements embody the answer to why this journey seems the riskiest.

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I am about to embark on my college career and throughout my expedition I will be the epicenter of everything in my life. This is because I will the one making decisions for myself and no one can be blamed if I end up failing. College is the first step towards living a life with purpose and meaning; the opportunity which will enhance my intellectual abilities and enlighten me spiritually. The aim is to become better and eliminate the scope of improvement to its maximum. But what is even more crucial is to embrace the journey and live life ...

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