Blake Farber

        I do not think I could have been part of a tighter group than those involved in The Memory of Water.  As the assistant stage manager of the show, I was given the opportunity to see the show grow from page to stage, and it was a most beautiful journey.  The Memory of Water was written by Shelagh Stephenson and under the brilliant direction of Tom Isbell, performed in the Dudley Experimental Theater at the University of Minnesota-Duluth.  It takes a director who knows exactly what he wants to portray in order to express to the audience the range of the human emotions.  Likewise, this show would never have the same meaning if the actors were not involved in their characters one hundred percent.  This show excelled on all levels, left little room for improvement, and much space for your own indulgence.  With each facet of the show contributing entirely to the overall production, very few changes could have been made (always some improvement is possible) to make the show any more convincing.

        This specific play most definitely works on so many different levels, and for so many different people.  Nearly everyone has some connections with family, and certainly most of them have intimate feelings for each other within their families.  So obviously, a show that might be only directly conveying a mother-daughter relationship, it sure can hit each of us one way or another.  As discussed in class, relationships, in themselves, can be considered a common theme of the show.  But I believe it to be more than that.  Vi keeps returning to Mary.  And Catherine consistently falls in and out of love with her own mother, but in the end sees the truth.  Teresa has a hard time tolerating her own two sisters, for she is the one she believes is taking all responsibility in the matter.  It goes without saying, but in the end, all three daughters learn the real appreciation for their mother, and now that Vi is gone, they learn the appreciation they need for each other, especially since none of them can really get it from anywhere else.  Mary is in a relationship with a married man.  Teresa is on her second husband, one which she found in the newspaper.  And Catherine can’t hold a steady relationship for the life of her.  So while it is incredibly difficult for each of the sisters to grasp their loss, in the end, they are all brought together by it.  No matter how hard you try, you cannot get away from family, and the ones that love you the most.  They will always be there for you, whether you like it or not.  It may not seem to make you stronger or smarter, but you will eventually learn that family is important; they make you who you are.

        When the play opens, we see Mary and Vi.  Mary is aware that her mother has passed on, but does not greet her with any sort of sympathy.  The first thing she asks Vi is “What do you want?”.  She is obviously more concerned with her mother’s intentions than giving her mother a proper greeting.

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        Teresa considers herself to be the most responsible sister.  Perhaps this is due to the fact that she is the oldest, so it is natural for her to take responsibility.  Teresa, in her own mind, is the only daughter who had any sort of care for her mother, even though the death is hard for her to grasp.  Teresa herself did not know at all how to deal with the situation, considering the first thing she wanted to do after she was informed of the death was to have sex.  She knew it was a sick feeling to have, but ...

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