To what extent is Hardys poetry dominated by relationships?

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To what extent is Hardy’s poetry dominated by relationships?

When looking at this question it is important to define what could be meant by the term “relationships”. What the word immediately connotes is an emotional connection between a couple. A lot of Hardy’s poetry concerns this type of “relationship” but he is by not so narrow that this is his only subject matter. However the broader definition of just any state of “connectedness” may also be taken into account when coming to a conclusion.

Hardy’s most positive poem about relationships is “When I Set Out For Lyonesse”. It was written after a trip to Cornwall in which he met Emma Gifford who later became his wife. At the start of the poem the landscape is cold and desolate and love feels “a hundred miles away”. He does not describe what happened whilst he was there and he creates an aura of mystery around the Arthurian Lyonesse. The importance of Lyonesse is emphasised by its repetition within the poem. The mystery is enhanced when he proclaims that no “prophet” or “wisest wizard” could guess what would “bechance at Lyonesse. He himself seems incredulous that he could find love because the outlook in the first stanza is so decidedly bleak. When he returns he is transformed by what has happened and “magic” is in his eyes. He has a “radiance” which, unlike the macrocosmical “starlight”, comes from within.  Love is portrayed as something remote, rare and capable of bringing about a magical transformation. His relationship with Emma Gifford transforms him and this poem reflects that transformation.

“When I Set Out For Lyonesse” demonstrates just one of the ways a relationship is presented. Hardy’s experience of relationships is a varied one. Neutral Tones and We Sat At The Window present relationships soured by apathy.  In Neutral Tones the relationship has stagnated; he has become a “tedious riddle” to her and when they do speak it only serves to diminish their love further. The atmosphere created is bleak and stripped bare of all fertility. Even the sun is devoid of all colour and “grayish leaves” lie on the ground. In We Sat At The Window two silent figures stare outside into the rain. The continually falling rain is incongruous with the season but its dynamism also marks the passing of time. As the time stretches on they remain silent and Hardy remarks,

        “wasted were two souls in their prime”

However, here Hardy portrays a wasted potential because they don’t grasp “how much” they have yet to discover in each other. The relationship in Neutral Tones is decrepit; it has run its course and the only strength it has left is the “strength to die”. Both poems are dominated by a relationship but not in the same way that Lyonesse is. Hardy is enamoured in Lyonesse but how was he to know that, given a few years, this relationship could fade into Neutral Tones?

Retrospectively we know that the state of happiness portrayed in Lyonesse did not last. Hardy lamented his treatment of Emma Gifford after her death in 1912. The poems written between 1912 and 1913 are consumed by Veteris Vestigia Flammae. His relationship with Emma Gifford is definitely the dominant theme in this collection. There is both the relationship between the two when she was alive and his relationship with the dead Emma. In The Voice his dead wife is addressed directly. Hardy hears Emma call to him and “call to me” is repeated throughout the poem to mimic what he hears in his mind. The metrical composition of the poem is particularly striking and onomatopoeiac. The voice of his wife coming and going in the “breeze” is suggested by the use of dactyls like “call to me”, the triple rhymes on lines one and three and the sharp truncation of lines two and four.  Hardy constructs the poem to show his increasing doubts; the excitement of the first two stanzas gives way to a deep uncertainty.  He sees her in an “air-blue gown”, as she was in the prime of their relationship, but by the end she has “dissolved” into “wan witlessness”. Questions are asked but no response is given and so he carries on “faltering forward”. Like in Neutral Tones the landscape mimics the relationship; the leaves are falling and a there is a harsh “norward” wind.  The sense of loss is acute and even at the end he hears the “woman calling”.    

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In many of the 1912-1913 poems reflect the affect of Emma’s death upon his perception. Particular moments are chosen to illustrate the change that has taken place. These are moments that have gained poignancy upon retrospective reflection. In The Walk Hardy juxtaposes the past with the present to try and comprehend the “difference”. The structure clearly juxtaposes the past against the present. When he walked up the hill in “earlier days” he was on his own but “did not mind” because he didn’t think of her as “left behind”. He walks up the hill in the “former way” and sees ...

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