Culture & Socialisation

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Assignment 1: Culture and Socialisation

Use fictional experiences to explain areas where socialisation may take place in an individuals life.

Part 1A

When I was younger my mother married a man who had grown up in the Jamaican society.  Although my immediate family are of Jamaican decent, we have been grown in the western society and so we do not follow the Jamaican culture.  When they married I noticed that the norms and values of my mother did not remain the same as before, and she began to incorporate more of the Jamaican norms and values into the household.

Previously my mother did not have any issues with me mixing with members of the opposite sex, however in the Jamaican culture the values surrounding this are somewhat different to ours; young girls and boys should not mix unless they are family, and even this is limited.  This also stems from the value that parents and family are the most important, and so the norm is that most children do as their parents say and girls and boys do not play together as friends.  I had to adopt this principle in order to keep good vibes within the household, although it went against my own norms.

It is customary in Jamaican culture to prepare fresh food everyday so it became a norm for me to prepare all the fresh food for my mother to cook and, if my mother was not there then, as the oldest daughter I was expected to assume her role and take care of the house and those in it.  Although generally my role as daughter was menial when my mother was present, it became the most important when my mother was not present.  

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My mother  would allow me to accompany her whilst she visited her friends and would also take me to parties and gatherings.  This was not accepted by my step father as he saw it as disrespectful for others to see a mother and daughter socialising together as we are not of the same status.  It was not the norm a mother and daughter to be seen out like that.  It also became a norm that when there were adult visitors in the house, my brother and I would make ourselves scarce and would rarely talk unless spoken to.  Jamaican parents ...

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