In the collection of short stories in Arranged Marriage, the author, Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni, portrays the theme of keeping secrets in two short stories, Affair and Meeting Mrinal.

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English Comparison Essay

Arranged Marriage:

Affair, Meeting Mrinal:

Fragile Women

Hiding the Truth

November 3rd, 2008

In the collection of short stories in Arranged Marriage, the author, Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni, portrays the theme of keeping secrets in two short stories, “Affair” and “Meeting Mrinal”. The protagonists in these two stories suffer from keeping secrets, particularly with important people in their lives. In the story “Affair”, the protagonist, Abha is not able to confront her good friend, Meena and keeps secrets from her. It is most evident in the story where Abha thinks Meena’s secret affair has to do with her husband. However, they resolve their problem by telling the truth. In the other story “Meeting Mrinal”, the protagonist, Asha, is not able to be truthful and suffers from it until she decides to tell the truth at the end. Fragile women from the story “Affair” and “Meeting Mrinal” suffer from keeping secrets from other characters until they tell each other the truth.

Asha’s frailty is shown in her idolization of her friend Mrinal and her need for her friend’s acceptance. She creates an ideal picture of her friend who “has the perfect existence — money, freedom, admiration and she doesn't have to worry about pleasing anyone.” Asha uses positive connotations such as freedom, admiration, and perfect to create an idea of perfection in her friend Mrinal who seems to succeed in the areas in which Asha feels insecure or fragile about. Asha is left feeling she cannot measure up to Mrinal and her successes. The fact that Mrinal had warned Asha about her life choice to enter an arranged marriage rather than to finish a college and to get a job leaves Asha feeling defeated and proven wrong, but unwilling to admit it. This notion of perfection Asha has created is destroyed when Mrinal admits she is unhappy, lonely, and admits she is jealous of her friend’s husband and child. Asha realizes when Asha lies to Mrinal about her life in a good way; Mrinal envies her fake life as much as Asha envies Mrinal’s success. At this point, Asha again hides the truth about her life. The creation of perfection shows Asha’s frailty and her attempt to compensate for her own puzzled life. Here she asks herself “What would I live on, now that I knew perfection was only a mirage?” The deterioration of her ideals of perfection in her friend only adds to the fragile nature of her character. She also becomes a child- like figure that in the end needs someone to look after her and help guide her, shown “I can’t focus too well on his face, but I hear the shock in his voice and beneath it a surprisingly prim note of disapproval. It makes him sound almost…motherly” (297). Asha’s fragile nature is shown through her jealousy over Mrinal, ideals of perfection and in her speeches.

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Similarly, Abha envies Meena, like how Asha envies Mrinal’s perfect life, and Abha is described as a mother figure to Meena. She is jealous over Meena’s physical beauty, shown on page 235:

“I don’t have Meena’s fair skin, so dramatic with her curly black hair and long lashes. My nose is broad and honest but by no means elegant, while hers straight and chisel-sharp, looks as through it belonged on an apsara from classical Indian sculpture…I constantly battle the inches that accumulate almost by magic around my hips, while Meena glides through life slim and svelte, eating whatever she ...

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