Aakash Pandya                                                                                           10A2 English    

“No One Knows How To Love, All Relationships Are                                                        Dysfunctional”.

In this essay, I will be talking about the story by Thomas Hardy “The Withered Arm”. Throughout the essay the main statement I will be discussing is “no one knows how to love, all relationships are dysfunctional” I will be explaining all the relationships between the four main characters Rhoda Brooks, Gertrude Lodge, Farmer Lodge and The Boy.

Firstly there’s Rhoda Brooks who has many relationships in this story. I will be talking about her first relationship, which is with Farmer Lodge.

Rhoda and Farmer Lodge used to have a past, Rhoda had an affair with Farmer Lodge and during that affair Rhoda got pregnant. Farmer Lodge left Rhoda to bring up their son alone. This was because the Rhoda that he had fallen in love with for her stunning looks had got old and was fading “a thin fading women of thirty” this shows us that she was getting older. Farmer Lodge wanted nothing to do with this boy because he was illegitimate so after Farmer Lodge died he would not have been able to inherit all of the riches Farmer Lodge had.  This tells us that the type of love that Farmer Lodge had for Rhoda was sexual, physical and superfitual. The love that Rhoda had and until a certain extent still does have was admiration, obsessive and unrequited she loved him loads but he had no love in return for her.

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Then we have the second relationship of Rhoda, which is between Rhoda and Gertrude. Rhoda first heard about Gertrude Farmer Lodges new wife through her fellow “milkers” who were gossiping at work. When Rhoda heard this she was shocked. So for her selfish reasons she sends her son several times to go and “give her a look”. She was mainly interested in Gertrude’s looks; she was always trying to make herself look better than her, for example she sends The Boy to find out how tall Gertrude is Rhoda asks the boy “is she tall” The Boy replies “she ...

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