When friar Lawrence decided to marry them he did it very hastily and did not realy think about the conciquences and all the problems that will have happened because of them being wedded this is what friar Lawrence did and I think that this contributed hugely to there deaths.
In the meantime, Romeo, hidden in the Friars cell, had just been informed of a change of heart by the Prince rather than death, Romeo should only be banished from Verona. Then the nurse came with news from Juliet "She weeps and weeps." The Friar advised Romeo to wait until dark and then go to see her.
When Romeo was banished from Verona he could not see Juliet again and this was a majour problem to him. Fryer Larence helped Rome though and this is were it all went wrong, Fryer Lawrence had a plan of how to get Romeo and Juliet away from Verona and so that they could live a happy life. This all went wrong and I think that this was also a majour part of the deaths of Romeo and Juliet.
Juliet hurried to Friars cell, both to confess her disobedience and to see Romeo. There she met Pads, who was arranging for their forthcoming marriage. Though Juliet openly confessed to loving someone else, Paris thought she was making a declaration towards him and promised that they would be married in bliss. After he left, Juliet turned to Friar Lawrence for help, this is where he first started and in a couple of days they will both be dead.
Friar had a plan and gave her a potion that would make her appear to be dead, but in reality would only bring on a long sleep. When her family discovered her "lifeless" body, they would place it in the Capulets' tomb, and Friar would then send Romeo to rescue her and take her away from Verona, this was a bad plan which had not back up if everything went wrong and it did all go wrong because Romeo did not get the letter telling him that Juliet is not dead and it is all a fast.
The Capulets were delighted when Juliet returned home and told her family that she would agree to marry Pads. But on the evening before the wedding, Juliet took the potion, and the next morning, when Friar and Pads came to find Juliet, they found her dead and her parents were distraught. They took her body, according to plan, to the family tomb.
However, this did not work out as planned because the note did not get to Romeo in time and he went back in to Verona because he has heard about the death. Rome had been banished from Verona for causing trouble on the streets so this was a bit risky. When he got to the tomb, he found her lying there. Juliet was just about tot come around from the potion, which put her to sleep. It would only be a couple of minutes but earlier on, Romeo had some poison which could kill at least ten men all at once
Meanwhile, in Mantua, Romeo heard of Juliet's death before Friar's messenger could tell him what had happened. Romeo rushed to Verona stopping on the way to buy some poison so he could die and be at peace with Juliet. 'Well, Juliet, I will lie with thee tonight," he said.
At the Capulet's vaulted tomb, Romeo found Paris mourning Juliet's death. He recognized Romeo and drew his sword. The two fought and Paris was fatally wounded and just as he was dying he pleaded with Romeo to lie him next to Juliet in the tomb. Romeo hesitated, then dragged Paris inside the tomb so that he too could lie near Juliet. Then, looking down at his bride, Romeo cried out Eyes, look your last! Arms, take your last embrace! and lips, 0 you seal with a righteous kiss a dateless bargain to engrossing death."
Romeo gave her a kiss then drank the poison and lay dead next to her.
Meanwhile Lord and Lady Capulet arranged for their daughter to wed Count Pads 'Well my child early next Thursday morning, the gallant young and noble gentleman the Count Paris will make you a happy bride at St Peters Church!" Juliet said to her parents she would kill herself rather than marry Paris. "is there no pity sifting in the clouds that sees into the bottom of my grief? 0 sweet my mother, cast me not away, delay this marriage for a week, a month or if you do not, make the bridal bed in that dim monument where Tybalt lies."
Soon, Juliet woke up to find her husband lying next to her, dead. She heard footsteps coming and took Romeo's dagger and stabbed herself crying, "0 happy dagger! ... Let me die!"
Just then the Friar entered, followed by the Montagues, the Capulets, and the Prince. Before them lay Paris, alongside Juliet and Romeo. Immediately the families each began to blame the other for the tragedy. Friar told them what had happened and explained the circumstances which had led to the deaths of their children.
When he heard the story, the prince said "where be these enemies? Capulet, Montique, see what a scrooge is laid upon your hate, that heaven finds means to kill your joys with love .... are punished
"A gloomy peace this m morning with it brings. . . " said the Prince in a final note, 'for never was a story of more woe than this of Juliet and her Romeo."
In conclusion, I feel that Friar is to blame for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet he supplied the potion and he also failed to get the message to Romeo but it was not done with any bad intentions. In fact, he gave the potion to Juliet in good will because he thought that it would sort out the feud between the two families the "Montigues" and the "Capulets". Friar thought that he could sort out the problem with one simple m marriage.
If Friar had not set up this plan to send a letter, both of them would still be alive. "n the mean time against thou shalt awake shall Romeo by my letters known our drift and hither shall he come. And he and will watch thy making"
Friar was hesitant about marrying the lovers because they were so hasty. He was also worried that one day Romeo said that his only love was Rosiline, the next day he said his only love was Juliet, which implies Romeo is fickle, and this means that he changes his mind a lot.
Friar is a religious man and always looks on the good side of things; however, he should have a second thought for the feud between the two families because it is an ancient and brutal feud. But he hasn't realised that marrying the two may aggravate the situation; after all he lets the marriage take place without the acknowledgement of the parents.
Friar makes his plan in such a hustle that he has not thought through the possibilities or an alterative plan. When Romeo hears that Juliet's dead he
blames fate for taking Juliet's life "is it en'so then I defy your star. He goes to the vault drinks the deadly poison and dies. If Romeo had received the letter from Friar selfishness is to blame for the death of Juliet. When Juliet wakes up the friar tells us that Romeo is dead. His whole plan is abolished. He dreads Juliet to escape before the watch comes. Come I'll dispose of the among a sister hood of nuns (V3 161162)
Paris after the funeral lays flowers on the tomb and weeps for her death. When Romeo is present, Paris becomes enraged and blames Romeo for Juliet's death as she is so saddened by cousin Tybalt death. Pads draws out his sword but is killed by Romeo.
Friar had planned it all well but he had not thought about what would happen if Romeo did not get the message. If he had got the message of course it all would have worked out and there would have just been the family feud to sort out which they could have sorted out because Romeo had planned to run away with Juliet anyway.
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