Why family structures are changing.

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An introduction explaining three reasons why family structures are changing-

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Describe the structure of each family (family A)

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Analyse how each family group meets the needs of its members (family A)

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Research and describe the services used by each family to help meet their health and social care needs including an evaluation of the effects of such support. (Family A) page 14-15

Describe the structure of each family (family B)

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Analyse how each family group meets the needs of its members (family B)

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Research and describe the services used by each family to help meet their health and social care needs including an evaluation of the effects of such support. (Family B)

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Report

An in-depth analysis of the effects of two issues on the family members

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Describe how recent government initiatives aim to support families experiencing difficulties.

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An assessment of the role played by various organisations that provide support to families experiencing difficulties.

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A detailed explanation of three reasons why family structures have changed    

                                                                                     

The definition of a family is “The collective body of persons who live in one house, and under one head or manager; a household, including parents, children, and servants, and, as the case may be, lodgers or boarders.2 ref  accessed 1-3-06

Divorce

What is divorce? The decree or writing by which marriage is dissolved.  Families have changed in the last several decades. Instead of getting married, many people are living together or ‘cohabiting’. Some of these cohabitating couples eventually get married. Many of them break up. Very few stay together as cohabitants for long. The definition of a family is

“In the mid-1960s, only five per cent of single women lived with a man before getting married. By the 1990s, about 70 per cent did so.  Some people think that living together will lead automatically to marriage, but that often is not the case.” Ref  

The estimate of one-parent families in 1976 was 3/4 million, about 1 in 10 of all families with dependent children. Around half of all lone parents had two or more dependent children, so that, in 1976, more than 1/4 million dependent children were living in one-parent families. Ref  

Grounds for divorce include adultery, desertion, cruelty, the gender divide that has began to grow in recent years has shown that women are now becoming more economically independent, instead of depending on men.  In recent years divorce has risen due to the fact that recent changes in legislation have made it easier for women to leave marital relationships also there has been an over all decline in marriages as the statistics state above. One other reason why divorce has in creased is there is less stigma attached today unlike 20 years ago.  Another lesser intense, but no less popular, reason for divorce is something called irreconcilable differences. Ironically this does not mean when a husband and a wife begin arguing. In fact, arguing seems to be a penultimate prerequisite for being married.

Cohabiting couples accumulate less wealth than married couples.  Married men earn 10 to 40 percent more than single or cohabiting men, and they are more successful in their careers, particularly when they become fathers. Married women without children earn about the same as childless single or cohabiting women. All women who take time out of employment to have children lose some earning power—whether they are married or not.  However, cohabiting and lone mothers often lack access to the father’s income, making it more difficult to balance their caring responsibilities with their careers. Ref Haskey, J., ‘Trends in marriage and cohabitation’

The effects these structures have on married couples and cohabiting couples are significant for the children and family structure, “Today, more than 20% of children are born to cohabiting couples. However, only about one third of those children will remain with both their parents throughout their childhood.” (Sarandakos, S., 2000)

All this means that children born to cohabiting parents are more likely to experience a series of disruptions in their family life, which can have negative consequences for their emotional and educational development. Children living with cohabiting couples do less well at school and are more likely to suffer from emotional problems than children of married couples. Ref Journal of Marriage and the Family, Vol. 53, 1991,

pp. 79-101; Beller, A.H

Other affects on the family structures are there is an increase in the number of lone parent families.   The effects on the children can be devastating the children grow up with no mother/father, so they don’t know how to behave properly, in sociological studies it has been suggested that children in lone parent families place little importance on school, they are more likely to turn to crime and they themselves are more likely to become lone parents too.  Reconstituted families, this is two lone parents joining up into one big family however when doing this it has a number of effects on the family and children, the mother and father are constantly being competed against, as both have children are competing for the others attention. Also the parents themselves will have a limited amount of time with each other this leads to them drifting apart. Another type of family that divorce can lead to an increase in is shared care families these are families that have split up but they have children, however the children are shared, the effects this can have on the family include, competition for the love of each parent also if the children are old enough they will play each parent against each other this can make both partners very resentful, but it also gives the children the upper hand by playing each parent against each other.

Step families are very another effect of divorce, when two parents who are divorced meet up and re-marry this is a step family, but they also bring children into the family, this is very hard to work, but when they do the children usually feel as if they have lost their mother or father, and not as though they gained one again the children are constantly competing against each other and this can make things very difficult for the parents, it is especially difficult when the children are teenagers, they use this family to rebel and will try to take very little to do with the other parent, this leads to a lot of resentment, also it can lead to things being difficult for both parents especially if the one parent finds his or her children are have a hard time coping.

To sum up divorce has a number of effects on family structures, firstly divorce isn’t planned but because it is so easy people are beginning to use it more and more, however they don’t realise the implications it has on the rest of there families, it has steadily lost its stigma but is still seen as a destructive force in society.  It can wreck children’s emotional lives and also lead to the parents feeling as though they are responsible, when in fact they cant be blamed it isn’t there fault, however as divorced has increased it has lead to more shared care and reconstituted families thus building up the typical nuclear family.

Contraception

A study was conducted of 269 women presenting to a National Health Service clinic in London, England, for pregnancy termination. 163 women (62.6%) had been using contraception--primarily condoms--around the time they became pregnant, but 86 failed to use the method correctly. Another 81 women (31.2%) had used contraceptives in the past, but not at the time of the index conception. 73 of these women were former pill users and 39 had used condoms. 39.5% of these women had discontinued use because of contraceptive side effects, particularly nausea. Finally, 16 women (6.2%) had never used a contraceptive method.  .  Ref   From this you can see that over 50% of women were using contraception but it failed to do its main function only 6.2% did not use contraception this is very little out of the population that was represented and it also shows that contraception was in use and still is.  Other reasons why family structures have changed is down to contraception and birth they have been steadily declining since the early 90s, driven by fewer teens having sex and more sexually active teens using contraception effectively to protect their physical health, their emotional health, and their opportunities for the future. Here is a definition of contraception “Contraception aims to prevent sexual intercourse from causing pregnancy.”  However, no matter how much encouragement we give young people to say "no," many will still become sexually active with out the use of contraception this in turn is leading to many family structures changing.

There are a number of reasons why contraception is still not being used widely; firstly due to religion and its stance on contraception young people are increasingly worried about going against their beliefs.  Contraception is still a very difficult subject that needs to be tackled in today’s society, people still feel awkward about going and asking for it, they think by doing this they are being judged.  Schools are still very cautious on this subject and they feel that if they educate children on this it will only raise its awareness there by increasing sexual activity among younger teens.  Peer pressure still plays a vital role on how young and older people feel towards sex; some people feel they have to lose their virginity at a young age as it supposedly makes them ‘cool’.  There is a growing number in family planning the majority of people are leaving it until later on in life this has a number of implications of the effects on families for example, if couples are leaving it later on in life to have children then they wont find out if they are impotent, this leads to more families becoming childless however it will lead to an increase in families adopting.  Also results on women constantly using contraception such as the pill or after morning pill can be devastating, with constant use it can have crucial effects on the reproductive system, it can lead to women not being able to have children, therefore forcing them to foster or adopt children also if couples cant have their own children then some wont want to adopt leading to an in crease in childless couples because of over using contraception.  Another effect of contraception is the decrease in the number of births, this could be down to people using contraception or planning to have children later on in life however they are not thinking about the problems such as infertility as they get older.   Statistics show that contraception use is increasing, here is one example “In 1988, 65 percent of females aged 15-19 reported using any method of contraception the first time they had sex. By 1995, 76 percent of this group reported using contraception at first sex.”  

This shows that in just less than ten years there has already been an increase of over ten percent, the effects this has on family life is less shot gun marriages

Other vital points to take into consideration are alcohol and drugs abuse Teens are much more likely to have unplanned and unprotected sex when they are using alcohol or drugs. This backs this point up more than one-half of teens (53.3 percent) say the main reason teens do not use contraception is because of drinking or using drugs. Ref     

All of the points above show that contraception is still not readily used and if this continues the effect on families will be devastating, there will be a dramatic increase in the number of lone parent families leading to a number of psychological effects on children, it has also been proven that if you are brought up in a lone parent family then your children are likely to become lone parents them selves.

Other effects this can have on the family include more cohabitation instead of marrying couples are living together and when they get bored they just leave the relationship leading to more people have different sexual partners and if people continue not to use contraception there will be cases arising where half brother and half sister are getting together due to some peoples ignorance, however this is an extreme case but it will begin to become more and more common as sexual partners increase and the use of contraception is ignored.  Contraception is now a choice for women, there is no longer this idea of a natural family, the pill helps women to concentrate on there careers instead of worrying about getting pregnant.  Another effect this has on families is couples or families having less children, years ago families had large number of families and unlike now they chooses to have few children this is down to other factor such as cost, but families with little numbers of children can effect families in different ways, for example in families were there is only one child they feel they are the most important and don’t compete for love or affection however they don’t know how to act around other children and as a result they are isolated but this is nothing new for them as they are use to it from their own home.  

Finally as a result families are getting smaller either there is one or two children or none as a result of over using contraception nowadays women are now not concerned with getting married and having children they are concentrating on other goals such as careers this is why the next reason why family structures have continued to change due to the independence of women.

Position of women

From the seventies the position of women has steadily chanced due to the increase in laws and simply because many women are infuriated  of being discriminated against only recently has the position of women is beginning to change rapidly, more and more women are now beginning to move into the work place instead of staying in the home in an article from The Times “More women than ever are launching firms, but they still have to conquer discrimination, finds Sandra O’Connell” The Sunday Times accessed January 22, 2006.  this point is vital for the movement of women into the work place, it has held them back in the home for many years, but if they continue to move into work and away from the home they will begin to change the structure of the home, this will lead to more husbands or partners staying at home to help with the children this is a complete role reversal.  “Women will fill seven out of 10 new jobs in London by 2016.” Ref  if this statement is true then 7 out of ten men will be at home this will have a major influence in the structure of households.  

Reasons why women are moving to work is because of current legislation that lets them be treated as equals but this has only come about in the last thirty years.  Other reasons include, women are now standing up for what they believe and by doing so they are now beginning to catch up on men in the work place.  There is a number of effects this has on the family structure, more and more women are now more concerned with their careers in stead of their family this was no the case thirty or forty years ago, in an article from the Irish news published 23rd of February it stated “A survey of 1100new and expectant mothers, only 2/5 planned to take advantage full advantage of their maternity leave, ½ said they would return to work because of the money”  this shows us that instead of staying at home to bring their children up they are more focused on their careers, if this is the case it will have a number of impacts on the family firstly there will be more househusbands, this is a complete role reversal for the mother and father, it means the women are now the bread winners therefore they have the control in the house however it will lead to the father having a closer bond with the child. Also the number of women in work is increasing at a rapid pace, it will mean there will be less women having large number of children as they will not want to be taking off work for maternity leave.  Other effects this has on the family is the family planning, women now plan to have children around there work career instead of the other way around. As this will cause women to have children later on their biological clocks could have run out by then therefore leading to them having no children or forcing them to adopt or foster.  

In conclusion there are a number of implications each of the three points, divorce, contraception and position of women in work, have on the structure of the family, each will cause it to change in a certain way but all of them cause the family structure to get smaller, or in extreme cases some women will want to have a large number of children and choose to stay in the home.  The majority of family’s are more focused on money instead of family, however when they get there money situation sorted out they then choose to focus on building up their family.  On the other hand some couples would rather stay focused on their careers instead of having children this could lead to family structures changing a great deal in the next decade as more and more couples are focusing on careers, staying childless or not being able to have children either way the facts state that family structures are changing

Describe the structure of two different families real or fictional.

The first family consists of four members a typical nuclear family, John aged 2, Mary aged 14, and also the mother Ruth and father Joe aged 36 and 40.  All of the names above are fictional.

John has quite a number of interests around the home he is like every other two year old very bold and adventurous, he loves to climb into cupboards and up on to the sofa, of course he gets a number of cuts and bruises, this brings me to the first service John uses, his family physician.  John is a healthily child and has no major health problems.  As he depends on both parents to meet all his need these vary considerably, Johns physical need include food, this is vital for his development he needs a balanced diet with plenty of nutrients in his food to ensure proper development he is feed at least four times a day, his hygiene  must be look after very closely his immune system has not fully developed this means he is still able to pick up a number of illness, he must be bathed and have his nappies changed regularly however he has begun to learn how to use the potty and the nappies will soon come off, by ensuring this he will be free from nappy rash and other digestion problems.  As John is still growing at a fast rate he need plenty of sleep this is about 14 hours for John a day, another vital necessity for John is shelter and warmth, as John is receiving these will continue to grow up in  a stable environment safely protected by his loving family.  Exercise is another need that John needs to ensure he gets, the majority of time as John is constantly on the move so he is getting exercise by himself  by either crawling or walking but now he is quiet a good walker this will build up strength in his legs enabling him to climb up different things.  One final physical need of John is fresh air and sun light, John needs these to ensure he will grow up properly, because if he is continually stuck in the house he will be breathing the same air which might not be that good for him as it can have infections in it from other family members.  In order for John and everyone else to survive his physical need to be met this also applies for every one else.

 Johns emotional needs are particular important to his development, he need constant “love and continuous affection, need for security, need for new experiences and play, the need for praise and recognition and the need for responsibility” ref an introduction to childcare and education, Carolyn meggitt, Jessica Stevens and Tina Bruce.

At this age John has social needs that he needs to interact with his parents and his siblings this is his way of socialising, as his parents talk to him on a regular basis this will enable him the chance to learn new social skills such as manners and responsibility even though he is very young his parents believe this should be taught from this age to ensure he is brought up in a stable and well mannered environment.

 John learns something new every day from the toys he has or his parents, to ensure he is constantly challenged his parents will repeat things or try to show him new games and challenges such as pee-a-boo, when he learns what this game is about he will become bored and try to learn a new game like hide-an-go-seek.  In order for John to develop his intellectual needs he need to be given game that will challenge him the games or toy such as fisher price try to develop his memory and hand to eye coordination.

Mary who is now becoming a young woman has very different needs, Mary’s physical needs include, regular physical exercise, this is very important Mary gets exercise from both walking to her friends house and to school most days . Peer relationships and acceptance become increasingly more important. Mary will need some guidance handling peer pressure and as she is close to her mother she has no problem talking openly about the problems she faces for example under age drinking and drug taking.

Mary is preoccupied and anxious about the physical changes in her body and may be overly critical of these changes and try to boost her body image.

Mary’s parents have noticed that she wishes for more privacy at this time.

Mary also wonders “am I normal” and “no one understands” thankfully her parents are full of confidence and support her. 

Other physical needs of Mary include sleep; she need at least 8 hours sleep each night and also must maintain that she keeps a healthy balanced diet of five portions of fruit and vegetable.  

Mary’s emotional needs are being wanted, at the age she is at she is constantly after acceptance by her peers, she realises that her parents accept her for who she is.  Mary needs to be  loved by her parents and her brother she need the warmth of a family, however she finds it hard to show her feelings to her family but deep down she knows she is loved wanted and needed.

Mary’s social needs include being with her friends, she loves to hang out with them at the local youth club or at school, they can play safely there and have no need to worry about any problems she might face on the street, however the peer pressure that Mary’s friends may exert on her can be bad, she can be influenced into things like drugs and underage drinking but thankfully this has not been a problem as yet.  

Mary’s intellectual needs are very specific, while at school she is challenged constantly, Mary is coping well with school work and is managing both social and intellectual challenges, she understand that if she wants to have a good job she needs to continue to work hard at school, however there are certain subjects that Mary does not like and this shows in her results but these subjects are P.E and other non curriculum subjects that don’t count towards her final grade.  If Mary continues like this she will be very successful in life as she is getting involved in stimulating activities outside of school this is a life long learning process that keeps the brain active.  

Ruth who is obese, has been like this for a long time she was always over weight and has never been able to lose her excess fat, her doctor has told her she has a bad metabolism, Ruth has been on a strict diet for the past two months her weight is slowly coming down but she still has a sneaky snack, her main hobby is sitting watching T.V. or reading and writing, she has been encouraged by her husband to either go out and work or become more active, Ruth’s needs are very limited due to her size, her emotional needs are her most worrying from a young age she has been called names and this has carried on with her as she has become older, this is why she wont leave the house she is a very insecure person who is afraid of people passing comment about her, Ruth’s husband play a vital role in building her spirit but it has had no major effect on her confidence she is still very insecure, recently she has tried counselling but she feels she wont be able to get over the problem, she just hopes she wont pass this on to her daughter but so far this has not been the case.  The only physical needs Ruth has are love, warmth, shelter, affection, fresh air and sun light, and most importantly a healthy diet but she doesn’t get very much of this due to her insecurity problems. However her child is proving hard to handle as he can easily out run Ruth, this will be a bigger problem as he gets older.

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The social needs are being able to talk to people about her problems and being able to cope with the pressure of life also talking to people about her children is a need of Ruth’s, she needs to stay in constant communication with some one of her own age.  Ruth’s intellectual needs are reading and writing, her mind needs to be stimulated which may be helped by accessing these resources such as the internet and various courses at her local institute.  She loves to write stories but won’t publish any of them; this is down to her insecurity. Also T.V. ...

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